was it easier?
There was a wedding at Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the wedding. When the wine ran short…
I was listening to the song â€œYesterdayâ€ by the Beatles. Paul McCartney wrote the lyrics.
McCartney wonders why his girl has gone away. Yesterday was so much easier, happier:
â€œYesterday, love was such an easy game to play
Now I need a place to hide away
Oh, I believe in yesterdayâ€
McCartney wants to go back to yesterday, fix his mistake. He blames his angst on having â€œsaid something wrong.â€
Was that all there was to it, saying something wrong ruined a relationship? Based on experience we could all say that we doubt that. Certainly friends, husbands, wives, children, and co-workers have said something wrong at one time or another. If that were all it took to destroy a relationship we wouldnâ€™t have marriages, family members, friends, or co-workers. We would all be alone!
Looking a little deeper we see McCartney saying that love was a game to play â€“ yesterday. Love was easy and fun.
Some would comment that since that song was written our concept of love has changed. It is supposed to be about romance, candlelight, fun inâ€¦ all the easy games to play. When that ends, when the passion fades, when the candlelight is no more than melted wax, and the flowers have dried out we move onto the next game.
Perhaps that was McCartneyâ€™s mistake. His words werenâ€™t a wrong statement, saying something wrong in and of itself. Perhaps, and likely, his words were just a bit too transparent and shallow. Hey honey, this is fun, this is a great game â€“ but Iâ€™m not serious.
Jesus is with a young couple. Certainly this was a joyous moment in their lives. They have entered into a lifelong commitment â€“ not just a game. They had friends and family â€“ all who cared were with them. All are celebrating. And, the problems didnâ€™t wait until tomorrow â€“ they were here today. The dawn would bring the realization that they had failed in their first task as hosts â€“ tomorrowâ€™s yesterday was turning into a failure. Then Jesus steps in. His Fatherâ€™s plan is in action. His power was revealed to His disciples. Tomorrowâ€™s yesterday was saved. The best wine was served.
Letting Jesus into our lives, our marriages and relationships makes each day more than a game. His first miracle becomes a recurring miracle. Each day in Jesus has true meaning, joy, and the fullness of real and eternal love â€“ the best.